Why People Are Single

There are a lot of people who constantly wonder why they are still single; well, I've come to keep it real with you. Most people are single because they want to be single. Most people don't want to be tied down because they want to talk to as many people as they can with no strings attached. These are those people who use the term TEAM to refer to the number of people they talk to. People are also single because they can't remain faithful to just one person. They refer to one as their MAIN and the other as their SIDELINE, which is only in use when the main acting stupid or they aren't in town. People are also single because of the qualities about them. Guys, you can't stay at home with your mama, you just can't. No woman wants a man who depends on his mama to take care of him because after all, if you can't support yourself, how you going to support your woman? Stop being so "hard" because half of you really aren't. A woman likes to see a man's soft side every now and then; they don't need you being all wrapped up in your pride and they don't get any affection. Let's face it, women need more than a hug to feel appreciated. Ladies, these nasty attitudes you be having have got to go. A man don't want a woman who is constantly pissed about something, especially if it's little petty stuff. It's ok to go off about things that truly matter, like him getting another broad pregnant or him sleeping around on you. Stop having an attitude when the guy ain't texting you back fast enough to your liking or answering the phone when you call; we do after all have other priorities. Finally, people are single because they have created this list of qualities they want in a person. Guys, stop looking for women who look like these actresses and singers; woman stop looking for men who look like these actors and rappers/singers. Let's face it, there's only one Halle Berry; there's only one Michael Ealy; there's only one Paula Patton; there's only one Columbus Short; there's only one Keri Hilson; there's only one Trey Songz. Throw the list away. Find you a man or a woman who is a 6 on the scale that has a few qualities on your list and make them work for you. I'm tired of hearing people whine about how they don't have anybody; SHUT-UP!!!!!!! Think about some of the things I said and MAYBE somebody will walk your way. They not just going to fall in your lap; you have to search for them. Until next time, keep keeping it real.